#1-Would you set parental controls and a v chip on for your 14 year old son?
#2-When will you give the sex talk to your child.
#3-Would you layer your 13 year old son in sunscreen before going out from hotel to beach in mexico during summer or would you let them do it themselves.
#4-Would you let a 14 year old date unsupervised.
#5-what age to stop spanking?
#6- Would you let your 14 year old kid walk home from school/to school without you?
#7-would you allow your 11 year old son online without you sitting at his side?
#8-what age appropriate to swim in the deep end of the pool without a life jacket, not when they know how to swim but the age you feel comfortable?
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Parents Quiz-Are you a good parent?
I'm not a parent but here are my ideas for when I do have kids...
#1-Would you set parental controls and a v chip on for your 14 year old son? You mean on the computer?
Of course! Not because I don't trust him but because I don't trust the other people online. Also he could wind up anywhere with just 1 wrong click.
#2-When will you give the sex talk to your child.
When they are around 15 and in a relationship where they may want to start doing these things.
#3-Would you layer your 13 year old son in sunscreen before going out from hotel to beach in mexico during summer or would you let them do it themselves.
13 is old enough for him to do it himself but I would watch to make sure he'd put it on right and I'd make sure he reapplied it as necessary.
#4-Would you let a 14 year old date unsupervised.
Yes if I knew his date and the date was his age. And only at paticular places like the movies.
#5-what age to stop spanking?
When the child is about 5 as by then they understand more verbal punishments like time-outs and groundings.
#6- Would you let your 14 year old kid walk home from school/to school without you?
Yes as long as it was only a short walk (no more than 5 minutes) and he did not have to cross any main roads or walk through any unsafe areas.
#7-would you allow your 11 year old son online without you sitting at his side? Yes but I would warn him about not giving out personal info etc and the computer would be in the lounge room or somewhere else open that I could check on him.
#8-what age appropriate to swim in the deep end of the pool without a life jacket, not when they know how to swim but the age you feel comfortable?
I'd say 10 but after that there would be a rule of no swimming alone. Even if there is no parent there must be another child (above 10) there with you.
Parents Quiz-Are you a good parent?
I'm not a parent but, I'll feel it out to what I'd do when I do have my own child.
#1-Would you set parental controls and a v chip on for your 14 year old son?- Absolutely
#2-When will you give the sex talk to your child.- Probably tell my child around 10 or 11. Exspecially since kids are having babies younger %26amp; younger now days.
#3-Would you layer your 13 year old son in sunscreen before going out from hotel to beach in mexico during summer or would you let them do it themselves- I'd probably help do it on their back but, not their WHOLE body.
#4-Would you let a 14 year old date unsupervised.- Depends on how mature %26amp; responsible they are. If my 14 y/o is responsible as me when I was 14, absolutely.
#5-what age to stop spanking?-6
#6- Would you let your 14 year old kid walk home from school/to school without you?- Depends on how far away. 5 minutes, yes. Any more than that, no.
#7-would you allow your 11 year old son online without you sitting at his side?- Umm, me walking around the house %26amp; checking on him every 2 seconds.
#8-what age appropriate to swim in the deep end of the pool without a life jacket, not when they know how to swim but the age you feel comfortable?- Probably around 9-comfortably. But, I'd probably keep a close eye on them if they did know how to swim before 9.
Parents Quiz-Are you a good parent?
1. Yes, because he tries to watch inappropriate things.
2. 12, already done.
3. themselves, they have to learn sometime.
4. no, because i know what I was doing at that age.
5. 13 or when they no longer deserve it.
6. yes, he already has.
7. no because there are to many perverts on here.
8. 13, he should know how to swin by then.
Parents Quiz-Are you a good parent?
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Parents Quiz-Are you a good parent?
#1-Would you set parental controls and a v chip on for your 14 year old son?- TV: no Computer:only to block porn
#2-When will you give the sex talk to your child.
10 unless she starts asking earlier
#3-Would you layer your 13 year old son in sunscreen before going out from hotel to beach in mexico during summer or would you let them do it themselves.
Themselves
#4-Would you let a 14 year old date unsupervised.
After a thurough sex talk, yes.
#5-what age to stop spanking?
When other punishments work better.
#6- Would you let your 14 year old kid walk home from school/to school without you?
Depends on how far or how well behaved my kid is.
#7-would you allow your 11 year old son online without you sitting at his side?
Yes, but I would also make sure he knew that I would always know what he was up to.
#8-what age appropriate to swim in the deep end of the pool without a life jacket, not when they know how to swim but the age you feel comfortable?
Six or so
Parents Quiz-Are you a good parent?
I'm not a parent, I'm 14 but I'll answer to =].
1) I would block certain channels maybe, its really depends on the child and how mature they are.
2) I'd probably give the sex talk when they were between 13-14.
3) I think at 13 your child is old enough to put sunscreen on by themselves, so I probably would let them do it themself.
4) No, I wouldn't let my 14 year old do that, they could go out with friends, but not alone until their 16.
6) I'd stop spanking at 6
7) Again I think it depends on how mature your child is.
8) I'd probably let them swim in the deep end whenever they felt comfortable doing it, I'd be by the pool though until they had done it a few times and were strong swimmers.
I really just kinda answered these thinking about how my parents have treated my brother and I.
Parents Quiz-Are you a good parent?
#1-Would you set parental controls and a v chip on for your 14 year old son?
Only after the first time I caught him watching something innapropriate.
#2-When will you give the sex talk to your child.
Bits and pieces, age appropriately. I will answer all questions honestly, in a way that I think he can understand at any age. Not sure when I'll do the one big talk--around 12 probably.
#3-Would you layer your 13 year old son in sunscreen before going out from hotel to beach in mexico during summer or would you let them do it themselves.
Do it himself.
#4-Would you let a 14 year old date unsupervised.
Probably. Maybe in a group. If I had no reason to mistrust him.
#5-what age to stop spanking?
Never started.
#6- Would you let your 14 year old kid walk home from school/to school without you?
Absolutely.
#7-would you allow your 11 year old son online without you sitting at his side?
Nope.
#8-what age appropriate to swim in the deep end of the pool without a life jacket, not when they know how to swim but the age you feel comfortable
Probably around 8 if he knew how to swim. Around 14 if he didn't. (I don't know how to swim, but I can still doggy paddle in the deep end.)
So...What are the correct answers?
Parents Quiz-Are you a good parent?
im not a parent but want to see how i do any ways so please let me know...
1-Would you set parental controls and a v chip on for your 14 year old son?
**depends on how he acts and if i can trust him and if i watchted the movies and shows b4 he did...but i would say PG13
#2-When will you give the sex talk to your child.
**i think you should talk about sex from the time they are 12ish up (my parents did and i did fine) not in detail til they are ready but they should know that sex can = a baby
#3-Would you layer your 13 year old son in sunscreen before going out from hotel to beach in mexico during summer or would you let them do it themselves.
** i would tell him to do it but over all if he doesn't i would say i told you soo and run him a cold bath
#4-Would you let a 14 year old date unsupervised.
** no way in hell...i know what i did at 16 no way at 14
#5-what age to stop spanking?
** i think around 10ish cuz if you do it right when they are under 3 you won't have to do it when they are older
#6- Would you let your 14 year old kid walk home from school/to school without you?
** depends on how far the school was and how my 14 year old acted...if they are stupid and take candy from stangers then no but if they act like i did at 14 then yes
#7-would you allow your 11 year old son online without you sitting at his side?
** maybe...but i would have everything set were he couldn't just log onto chat rooms or my files to mess w/ the comp
passwords will be set at all times
#8-what age appropriate to swim in the deep end of the pool without a life jacket, not when they know how to swim but the age you feel comfortable?
** i think after the age of 11...i can't swin and am scared to death of water so i hope my child will be able too over come that and swim but i will be scared when they are 30 and in the water
Parents Quiz-Are you a good parent?
#1-Would you set parental controls and a v chip on for your 14 year old son?no
#2-When will you give the sex talk to your child. not sure
#3-Would you layer your 13 year old son in sunscreen before going out from hotel to beach in mexico during summer or would you let them do it themselves. i would let them do it their selves
#4-Would you let a 14 year old date unsupervised.yes if they were mature enough
#5-what age to stop spanking? 5 years old
#6- Would you let your 14 year old kid walk home from school/to school without you? depends on how far it is
#7-would you allow your 11 year old son online without you sitting at his side? yes cuz i would check what he looked up later
#8-what age appropriate to swim in the deep end of the pool without a life jacket, not when they know how to swim but the age you feel comfortable? 12 years old but only if they knew how 2 swim
God bless
Parents Quiz-Are you a good parent?
I'm not a parent, actually, I'm still in the adolescene of my age but this is what my parents did as a child, and what I would do.
#1:
My parents never set parental controls. They trusted me not to go on channels that were inappropriate, and guess what, I didn't. As a kid, I remember my mom telling me to "cover my eyes" during the nasty parts so I did, and I guess it just stuck. My parents were around me a lot too, so I got a lot of monitoring. Plus, I think that if you set restraint on your kids they will want to break it. I'd probably do the same to my kids.
#2
Surprisingly, my parents never gave me the sex talk. They gave me brief little snippets but never the whole thing in detail. I think they did the right thing too, because I didn't really learn any sex ed until high school. I was a tad naive. When I have kids, I think I'd give them a talk at the puberty age - around 11 to 13, but just small things.
#3
My parents let me do it myself. Sometimes, I'd skimp out on sunscreen and they'd put some on the spots I missed. I think it's great when parents give you a sense of freedom, but still manage to be in your life.
#4
My parents have still not allowed me to date (I'm 15). I'm allowed to have "things" with boys, but not a boyfriend. I think 14 year olds are still a tad too young to be dating anyways, but if they really liked a boy, I would have him come to my house so they could have a sense of privacy under my own roof.
#5
My parents spanked me (I was very naughty!) until I was about 10 years old. It didn't really scare me, since it didn't really hurt but it was a nice warning as a child. When I have kids, I'd like to teach them in a different way - through talking it out. I find spanking to be ineffective unless there was a very very bad reason.
#6
My parents allowed me to start walking home by myself at 12 years old. I lived in a fairly safe town, so they were reassured that nothing would happen. But, if something did, they did have a plan. They gave me a cell phone to use and a set of hidden keys, just in case.
#7
I'm a girl, and my parents let me go online by myself at 10 or 11 years old. At the time, I had parental controls for inappropriate sites and I was all set. My dad would check in on me every 1/2 hour or so to see what was up.
#8
I began swimming in the deep end without a life jacket at 5 years old. My parents are outdoor lovers, so it was only natural that they taught me how to swim at an early age. I was supervised until I was about 12, and that's when I was able to swim alone. In the ocean however, they had set up a signal that if I could see the signal from where I was standing, that it was too far.
Hope that was fun to read :]
Parents Quiz-Are you a good parent?
I'm not a parent... But I'll answer anyways...
1. some parental controls buy not too many, and I dont know what a v chip is...
2. i would first bring up sex and it being meant for a couple in love when my child is around 10 and as they get older expand on it and make sure they are comfortable discussing the topic with me
3. I'd let him do it himself but offer to help with his back
4. if I knew the guy/girl my kid was going out with and I knew where they were going, what they were doing and when they would be back and I'd want to be able to reach them by phone...
5. I'd say around the age they enter school, so 4 or 5
6. yes
7. yes but I'd check what he does online afterwards so I'd know whether or not to trust him in the future and I would try to put up some parental controls
8. the age I'd feel comfortable with is when they are able to swim the length of the pool without stopping - age has fairly little to do with swimming abilities
Parents Quiz-Are you a good parent?
Im not a parent...but when I am....
#1-Would you set parental controls and a v chip on for your 14 year old son? No, they know well enough what they can and can not watch
#2-When will you give the sex talk to your child.
Im not sure...my parents never gave it to me
#3-Would you layer your 13 year old son in sunscreen before going out from hotel to beach in mexico during summer or would you let them do it themselves. Themselves! Come on, he's 13 for Pete's sake!
#4-Would you let a 14 year old date unsupervised.
I will not let my child date until 16
#5-what age to stop spanking?
whenever is necessary
#6- Would you let your 14 year old kid walk home from school/to school without you? with a cell phone
#7-would you allow your 11 year old son online without you sitting at his side? Yes
#8-what age appropriate to swim in the deep end of the pool without a life jacket, not when they know how to swim but the age you feel comfortable?
Whenever he feels comfortable. Probably like 7....
Parents Quiz-Are you a good parent?
#1-Would you set parental controls and a v chip on for your 14 year old son? nope but only cause we dont get channels on tv that are sexual
#2-When will you give the sex talk to your child.
had the sex talk with mine he was 12 and she was 11
#3-Would you layer your 13 year old son in sunscreen before going out from hotel to beach in mexico during summer or would you let them do it themselves.
I would but hes very pale and burn easy. i dont my daughter cause shes darker and dont burn
#4-Would you let a 14 year old date unsupervised.
Group dates yes. movies, bowling etc
#5-what age to stop spanking?
Never really did. but think last time was about 8
#6- Would you let your 14 year old kid walk home from school/to school without you?
yes but i like less then 2 blocks away. and half way theres a police station..
#7-would you allow your 11 year old son online without you sitting at his side?
yes but he knows all the rules to be safe. and he knows i have it set up to remember all the sites and chats he does....
#8-what age appropriate to swim in the deep end of the pool without a life jacket, not when they know how to swim but the age you feel comfortable?
we have waterpark passes and have since my kids were 9. we go and tell them to meet us at a certain time. they swim in the deep. plus we have a pool.
Parents Quiz-Are you a good parent?
#1-Would you set parental controls and a v chip on for your 14 year old son?
yes if I felt a progam he/she was watching was or could cause damage or violence. But prior to doing that I wouold discuss whith my child the reason they are interest in the program and why I am concerned about them viewing it.
#2-When will you give the sex talk to your child.
Yes ignorance breads ignorance. By not talking to your child about sex you leave them in the dark about so many life issues.
#3-Would you layer your 13 year old son in sunscreen before going out from hotel to beach in mexico during summer or would you let them do it themselves.
I would allow them to apply the sunscrean themselves and offer to assist if they asked for it. I would also tell them to becareful and apply regulaly to prevent sunburn and possible suncancer in the future.
#4-Would you let a 14 year old date unsupervised.
a one on one date unsupervised would be a little hard to deal with but, a group outing would be OK as long as I knew the other person.
#5-what age to stop spanking? Spanking should only be done as a last resort and should never be done to humilate someone. By the age of 5 spanking doesn't hurt the tush as much as it hurts the pride.
#6- Would you let your 14 year old kid walk home from school/to school without you? Yes as long as the route is safe and they walk with other kids from school.
#7-would you allow your 11 year old son online without you sitting at his side? Yes. I would also bleock his access to sites that I think are not age appropiate for him
#8-what age appropriate to swim in the deep end of the pool without a life jacket, not when they know how to swim but the age you feel comfortable? My three year old loves swimming in the deep end. And as long as she is being watched I don't have a problem with it. She has been without wings, life jacket and other flotation devices since age 1.
Parents Quiz-Are you a good parent?
I'm not a parent but here's what I would do:
1.No, 14 is old enough to watch everything on T.V.. T.V. cuts the bad stuff out anyway.
2.When they ask.
3.13 is old enough to put sunscreen on themselves unless they need their back done.
4.I wouldn't let them go out late but during the day yeah it's okay.
5.Depends on maturity.
6.14 is way old enough to walk to/from school by themselves.
7.Yes
8.When they can swim without one.
Parents Quiz-Are you a good parent?
Is this something you made up? I think the best way measure if you're a good parent is by the child. Is the child happy, clean, fed, educated? If yes, then you're a good parent.
I'd like to know where you got these questions. Who bases parenting on this?
Parents Quiz-Are you a good parent?
man! What has seduced you from your Lord most beneficent? Him Who created you, fashioned you in due proportion, and gave you a just bias. In whatever form He willed, He put you together.
(Surat al-Infitar, 6-8)
Firstly: That the obligation of obedience to the parents and their rights is an obligation laid down by Allaah ta'aalaa in His Book and upon the tongue of His Messenger sallallaahu 'alaihi wa sallam), that is the basis for it - nothing else i.e. it is an obligation because Allaah ta'aalaa made it such. Allaah ta'aalaa says:
Thy Lord hath decread that ye worshlp none but Him, and that ye be kind to parents. (1)
Secondly: In the Aayahs where Allaah ta'aalaa orders good treatment of parents, He precedes it with the order to worship Him alone - He says:
" Worship none but Allaah; Treat with kindness your parents..... "(2)
and He says:
Serve Allaah, and join not any partners w{th Him; Be good to parents......" (3)
and He says:
" join not anything as equal with Him; Be good to parents...... "(4)
"And He has enjoined on man (to be good) to his parents: travail upon travail did his mother bear him, and in years twain was his weaning; (Hear the Command), 'Show gratitude to Me and to thy parents: to Me is (thy final) goal. " (5)
Thirdly: Obedience to parents just like obedience to those in authority is subservient to obedience to Allaah and His Megsenger (sallallaahu 'alaihi wa sallam). Therefore if obedience to parents clashes with obedience to Allaah and His Messenger (sallallaahu 'alaihi wa sallam) then parents must be disobeyed on that point.
Alee (radhiAllaahu 'anhu) reports that the Messenger (sallallaahu 'alaihi wa sallam) said:
'There is no obedience to anyone in disobedience to Allah, verily obedience is in that which is correct '(6)
And as regards obedience to the Messenger (sallallaahu 'alaihi wa sallam), then the Aayahs obligating that are many, and Allaah ta'aalaa says:
"We sent not an Apostle, but to be obeyed, in accordance with the Will of Allaah." (7)
And Abu Hurayrah (radhiAllaahu 'anhu) reports that Allah's Messenger (sallallaahu 'alaihi wa sallam), said :
"He who obeys me has obeyed Allah and he who disobeys me has disobeyed Allah, and he who obeys the Ameer has obeyed me and he who disobeys the Ameer has disobeyed me .(8)
In tafseer of Aayah 83 of Sooratul-Baqarah, Ibn Katheer says."Allaah the Blessed and Most High, reminds Banee Israaeel of these orders which He gave them and took their covenant upon and that they had turned away from that, all of it, knowingly and deliberately - while remembering it - so He ordered them to worship Him alone and not to associate anything with Him, and He ordered that for all of the creation and that is the reason why He created them...And that is the highest and greatest of the rights of Allaah the Blessed and Most High - that He alone should be worshipped, and then after that comes the rights of the creation, and the most important of these is the right of the parents and therefore He joins the two." So anything which Allaah or His Messenger (sallallaahu 'alaihi wa sallam) have obligated must be carried out and if the parents try to prevent that then they must be disobeyed in that.
Ibn Taimiyyah (raaimahullaah) says Majmoo al-Fataawaa, 14/339-340):
"And part of giving thanks for the good that someone does is the thanks due to the parents and others who do good to you, since 'He who does not thank the people does not thank Allaah.' , however - the right of no person, nor his favours can ever reach the level that they be thanked with the disobedience to Allaah, or that be obeyed in disobedience to Allaah - since Allaah is the Qne who sends down all the great blessings, which none of the creation are able to . And even favours done by any of the creation are from Him also, as He says:And ye have no good thing but it is from Allaah (9) and He says: And He has subjected to you, as from Him, all that is in the heavens and on earth. [l0]
And no one is able to recompense obedience, disobedience and Kufr but Him . Therefore it is not possible that anyone be obeyed in disobedience to the Creator as He says:
"We have enJoined on man kindness to parents: but if They (either of them) strive (to force) thee to Join with Me anything of which thou hast no knowledge. obey Them not.Ye have (all) to return to Me, and I will tell You ~the truth) of all that ye did."(11)
"Show gratitude to Me and to thy parents: To me is (thy final) Goal.But if they strive to make thee Join in worship with Me things of which thou hast no knowledge, obey them not; Yet bear them company in this llfe with Justice (and consideration), and follow the way of those who turn to Me: In the end the return of you all is to Me. "[12]
And the Messenger ~sallallaahu 'alaihi wa sallam) said:
"The Muslim must hear and obey in hard and easy things and what he likes and dislikes, as long as he is not ordered with disobedience and if he is ordered with disobedience then there is no hearing snd no obeying. "
And it occurs in al-Bukhaaree and Muslim that he (sallallaahu 'alaihi wa sallam) said:
"Verily obedience is in that which is correct ."
and he (sallallaahu lalaihi wa sallam) said:
"He who orders you with disobedience to Allaah - then disobey him."
and he (sallallaahu 'alaihi wa sallam) said:
"There is no obedience to any creature in disobedience to the Creator."
In tafseer of Aayah 83 of Sooratul-Baqarah, al-Baghawee says: " That is: We enjolned good conduct and kindness to them and obeying those commands of theirs which do not go against the commands of Allaah ta'aalaa . "
And al-Qurtubee says in tafseer of Aayah 23 of Sooratul- Israa:" Disobedience to them is disobeying their lawful wishes, just as goodness to them is agreeing to their lawful wishes - as long as that does not involve disobedience to Allaah). "
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Footnotes
1 Soorah al-Israa (17):23
2 Soorah al-Baqarah (2):83
3 Soorah an-Nisaa (4):36
4 Soorah An'aam (6):151
5 Soorah Luqmann (31):14
6 Collected by al-Bukhaaree,Muslim and an-Nasaa'ee 'as- Saheehah of al-Albaanee no.181
7 Soorah an-Nisaa (4):64
8 Collected by al-Bukhaaree,Muslim,an-Nasaa'ee and Ibn Maajah 'al-Irwaa of al-Albaanee no 394
9 Soorah an-Nahl (16) :53
10 Sooratul -Jaathiyah ( 45 ): 13
11 Sooratul- Ankaboot ( 29 ): 8
12 Soorah Luqmaan (31)
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